Toddinbow, 50

I'm not sure what to type in here as of yet. Give me some time and I'll figure it out. I've finally figured it out!!!! I know what it is that i am looking for. It has taken alot of time to really figure it out but I've finally got there. What I'm looking for is someone who I can spend time with. It's as simple as that. Amazing. Now just to clarify, I know that it says that I'm not looking for anything serious, however that does not mean I'd run away from it. I'm just getting out of a really bad marriage and I want to take my time to make sure that I dont make the same mistakes, but with the right person leading the way.. who knows. Maybe I do want a relationship, but I dont wanna jump into the deep end. Lets start in the kiddie pool and get me swimming again. If this scares you off, well then I'm sorry to hear that. But I wanna be honest about it. I would really like to hit it off with with someone and find that long term connection, but I am not gonna try to make something where there isnt. And I hope that you can be that open and honest with me.
Who am I? I'm a real contradiction, I'm a geek who loves movies, books, Star Trek, Star Wars, comics, anime, computers and any thing that you would normally say thats so geeky, well thats me. **update apparently I am not as geeky as I thought. A trip to the Fan Expo this year showed me that.... lol. This does not mean I spend hours in front of a computer or wear Vulcan ears (althought they do make me look sexy...lol) I just enjoy these things and wouldnt mind if I could find someone else who does as well.

HOWEVER!! I am also a sports nut (except hockey-some Canadian eh?? lol), love baseball, football, golf , both watching and playing. I'm into cars, camping, riding my bike and such. I would LOVE to find someone who can be the sparkplug and get me out more. I love my bike and need to get out more. Wouldnt take much to get me up and about, so if you're looking for someone to go with you, buzz me